Verbal Poison

"You're such an awesome chick." I can't tell you how often I hear this. or "I can't figure out why you're single."

Seriously? I can. It's easy. Who wants to date the fat girl?
The ones who do usually have an agenda -- they either consider fat girls an easy mark, have a fat girl fetish, or don't think they can do any better.

It's a big surprise, I know, but fat girls have standards and won't just spread eagle for any guy that shows interest in her. And if they do, they shouldn't.

I'm single because I'm not willing to be someone's placeholder.

And I'm fat because goddamnit... I love food.


This post made me want to jump on top of my desk and cheer!! I stumbled upon your blog and I am now reading at work (oops) but can't stop. You're now in my google blog reader. I wish you'd been around when I was single - it would have been nice to hear this from another strong-minded woman -- to know that I wasn't the only one out there who'd rather be alone for the right reasons than with someone for the wrong ones. I look forward to reading more of your back-posts and all your future ones! Brava, my dear, brava!


oh, and I'm johnisegmailcom. Sorry, still figuring out how to appropriately post a comment!


J :)

I'm glad you're am glad that you like this post (and so far back in my archives!!). I have been single for like 7 or 8 years because I'm not willing to be convenient.

I did that and it hurt real bad.

**takes a bow** and while you didn't know me when you were single -- you know me now ;)


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